I think a good nite's rest is on the way, the first of the whole week.
Adri started running a temperature since Monday, all the way til Friday!
Despite the serveral dosages of Paracetamol + Brufen and Mommy's late night sponging, the fever refused to subside but kept fluctuating, ranging from 37.7 degrees c to 39.7 degrees c! How agonising and worrying!
While Mummy, Daddy and Grandies (Grandparents) were terribly worried, little Adri didn't seem at all disturbed; she remained as active as ever! That of course, added a toll to the physically fatigued Mummy and Daddy who were nonetheless thankful that our little babe was still smilin and crawling around.
Throughout the 4 days, Adri saw Dr Yeo twice. From one who didn't mind medication, she squirmed at the sight of the syringe! =/
Thought things were turning for the better when Adri's temp dropped to 37.5 degree c on Friday morning but alas, when i went to pick her up from my in-laws' later that afternoon, a rash-covered Adri greeted me. Numerous tiny red spots covered Adri's face, neck, body and back! We decided to rush ADri to KK hopsital. After a long two-hour wait, results of the blood test cleared Adri of HFMD, Dengue and... (i cannot rem).
Doc's diagnosis - Adri had Roseola aka false measles. Cool eh?
Many whom i spoke with didn't even know such an illness existed!
No medication needed. i could only wait patiently for the spots to clear and they sure did!
Today, ADri's crystal clear complexion returned. =)
Now, ADri is sound asleep. Not only will Mummy and Daddy sleep well, Adri too, will settle in heavenly peace; she's finally free from late night medication and sponging. =)
Empathy Vs SympathyThrough this short one-week ordeal, i experienced a clear distinction between empathy and sympathy.
Friends who aren't parents will never be able to empathise; only those who are could identify with the heartache and worry that i was experiencing. Needless to say, the words and advice that they offered truly comforted.
Her daughter had Roseola too, but that colleague of mine surfed the internet just to find out more and the bits (the assurance that Roseola was common amongst children from 6m to 2y) really helped. Thanks, HC.
My Sis-in-law's fren dropped me an msg and spoke from her personal experience, just to assure me that things would be fine. Thanks, Meiling.
Of course, Daph, constantly flooded my mobile throughout the week with "How's ADri?". =)
Truly, at a point of distress, what i needed wasn't tonnes of information and knowledge, but the comfort and support.
Somehow, mothers and girlfriends are good at that.
Men (other than V.T), esp male bosses are terrible! Not that i expected anything, but the two experiences i had (once while i was carrying Adri and the other just on Friday) with two different male bosses are enough to confirm that men are just task-oriented creatures who place work above relationships.
Utterly disappointing.
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